Have you ever wondered why our relationships require so much
work? There's a very simple reason, but it's so easy
to miss.
What's more, this same unenlightened condition causes much
of today's soaring divorce rates, corrupt politics, crime, and
even the outbreak of war.
In fact, you'd be hard-pressed to find a dark condition in
this world that isn't connected to this one unseen
problem:
The world has handed us unnatural ideas about the nature and
purpose of our relationships.
That's the problem.
See, our relationships are the foundation of all that is Good on
Earth. We are born with a strong, natural desire to grow close
to others. Friends, family, co-workers, and lovers all serve
this innate longing. And, truth be told, the quality of these
relationships largely determines the fullness or emptiness of
our life experience.
Which brings us back to our problem: even though we spend most
of our life relating to other people, we were never taught the
one great secret of relationship success:
The purpose of every relationship in our life is not what we can
take from it, but what we can give to it.
The world would have us believe the surface aspects of a
relationship are its true value: companionship, conversation,
intellectual stimulation, sex, and shared interests. But nothing
could be further from the truth!
And it's this simple misunderstanding that keeps us from
learning the Great Lesson that Love is trying to teach us: The
simple act of loving is life's greatest reward.
We've all felt the amazing sense of contentment during
those moments in our lives filled with true love. But, all too
often, we've also watched our relationships become boring,
difficult, and distant.
Relationships are not supposed to be boring, difficult, or
distant! We are meant to have a continual relationship with a
Love that never leaves our side. Love is not supposed to be a
roller coaster ride -- up one minute and down the next.
But, to reap the wondrous rewards that Love has to offer, a
change needs to take place in us; one that begins with a new
understanding of the way Love works. Instead of trying to change
the people we relate to, we need to change the way we relate to
them.
Without this vital change in our understanding, our
relationships slowly lose their sparkle. But discover this Great
Lesson that Love has in store for us and our heart regains its
natural luster; former fears and worries disappear in its new
spirit of lightness.
This is the reason I'm writing to you today. Because I
know just how important it is to find this new understanding.
And in Guy Finley's groundbreaking new seminar,
"Secrets of Happier, Higher Human Relationships,"
that is exactly what you'll find. With one helpful insight
after another, Guy Finley details how we can learn to let Love
guide us through our relationships -- instead of being guided by
what we want from Love.
When we truly understand the timeless principle that Love always
rewards the lover -- as much or more than the beloved --
ALL of our relationships must change for the better:
- Our communication skills naturally grow stronger (and kinder!).
- We stop blaming people for how we feel, which begins self-
mastery.
- Anger and fear fall away because we stop trying to control
others.
- We see and set free harmful enabling patterns in our
relationships.
- Difficult situations help liberate us, instead of holding us
captive.
- We help change the world as we are no longer a part of its
conflict.
I know it's hard to believe something so vitally important could be found on one 60-minute program. To tell you the truth, I
thought the same thing. But when I found these principles, I
learned firsthand how one single idea -- one small impression --
could actually change the entire course of a person's
life. Only I couldn't have known that ahead of time. I had to
take a chance and find out.
Take that chance. Find out for yourself.
If you'll listen to this message with an open heart,
you'll catch a glimpse of something extraordinary:
You'll discover that Love has had a secret promise for you
all along. And you'll delight in knowing you've
finally found it.