Blindsided by a breakup, and asking herself the usual why, how, what questions, Tatiana Jerome went online. She used social media as a way to uplift and empower herself by venting but also working through her own part in the relationship's demise. Her posts struck a chord with thousands and then hundreds of thousands of readers - no surprise since most relationships (approximately 85 percent) end. Jerome's action plan - crowd tested by her many online followers - walks listeners through a clear-eyed view of why the breakup happened, what not to do on the rebound, and how to start over. Starting over involves rebuilding one's self-esteem by caring for oneself in body, mind, and spirit. Jerome's posts spread online because she shares these ideas with a winning combination of sympathetic best friend, straight-shooting counselor, and inspiring cheerleader. This is for anyone who has loved, lost, and wants to love again - only better and smarter.